Detachment...is the Secret...

Grass does not try to grow. It just grows. No matter how much you want it to grow, it will still grow at its own pace. Fertilizers [organic] will help. It will grow. A lotus flower is the most beautifl growth process. Out of a pond of stagnant water here is a radiant white or pink flower.
Detachment is the secret.

Live in the now that is all that matters. You can go here and there and have good memories or bad ones but in fact it is the sum of present moments. So make your present full. It is very Zen. Sit and forget you sit. You can realise afterwards checkign your watch if you want. You stay there stretching your limits. This is what makes you eternal being. Follow your bliss is all that matters. Try it.